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I Came Across Two Ladies. Which One Should I Stick To?

Posted on Apr 11, 2015 by in Ask an Expert

Dear Rebecca, I recently registered on the Chnlove dating website. First of all, let me say that the site has turned out to be of tremendous help to me. I have come across very beautiful and intelligent ladies on this site. I have a personal problem which I would be glad if you could help me unravel. After taking my time to go through the profile of the large number … Continue Reading

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When is the Right Time for Meeting Up and What to Care About?

Posted on Jun 25, 2014 by in Ask an Expert, Dating Advice

When an online relationship develops into a certain level, it’s time to meet up! Just like Nick did, our other members usually ask when is the right time for face-to-face connection and what to care about in this significant step. Rebecca, our dating expert, today will answer this question from a professional perspective. Question: I’ve been corresponding with a lady for almost half a year now, and recently we’ve come … Continue Reading

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What Can I Expect From My Future Partner

Posted on Jan 29, 2014 by in Ask an Expert, Dating Advice

Every man wants to find a young and beautiful girl who perfectly caters to his own needs, while eventually comes up in vain, especially for those whose personal conditions are not that satisfying, just like Ron here. As a dating expert, I suggest locating the marriage criterias based on your own actual situation. Question: Dear Rebecca, I’m a man, 44, who hasn’t really had a proper job in my life … Continue Reading

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Does Economic Condition Matter A Lot When Dating Chinese Girls?

Posted on Oct 29, 2013 by in Ask an Expert

Love and Money, which is more important for women in selecting a lifetime partner? It’s a question frequently asked by single men. Today, we are to find out the answer to begin with Alfred’s consulting letter. Question: Dear Rebecca, Hi, I was writing to a lady, (Ting) for several months, sent and read over 20 mails, chatted online, but when I didn’t have enough credits to receive her phone call, … Continue Reading

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Can I really put my trust in your site?

Posted on Sep 18, 2013 by in Ask an Expert

Just as any other dating site, ChnLove also receives some negative comments and reviews. A lot of people want to find out the truth behind the saying of ‘ChnLove Scam’. Today, our online dating expert, Rebecca, would make an explanation on this aspect, to begin with Ethan’s consulting. Question: Hi Rebecca, I have been on Chnlove for quite a while and writing to a few Chinese women that I’m interested … Continue Reading

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Why Is She Reluctant to Send Me Natural Photos?

Posted on Sep 9, 2013 by in Ask an Expert

Online dating is becoming increasingly hot nowadays. More and more and western men are likely to find a dreamed wife via online dating websites. Meanwhile, there is a certain number of male members suspectful about the realness of the ladies’ photos. They ask the ladies who they’re interested in and dating with to send the natural photos; while,not every lady accepts their requirements. They’re very confused why the ladies refused … Continue Reading

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How Can I Make the Relationship Work if She Can’t Speak English?

Posted on Jul 29, 2013 by in Ask an Expert

Most of the ladies on ChnLove have poor English, especially those with 40-up ages. Their poor English does become an obstacle in building a good relationship with western male members. Then, how to effectively communicate with your lady who is not good at English? Rebecca would tell you in the following paragraphs with specific details. Question: Hi Rebecca, I’m new to Chnlove and trying to find a mature woman who … Continue Reading

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How Can I Increase the Chance of Success When Meeting Up?

Posted on Jun 21, 2013 by in Ask an Expert, Dating Advice

When an online-dating relationship develops into a certain level, it will natually come to meeting up. Then, how to increase the chance of success in this process? Rebecca is going to tell you the secrets on how to successfully meet up Chinese women for marriage, beginning with Carl’s consultation. Question: Hi Rebecca, I am planning a trip to China to meet a wonderful lady. We have been writing to each … Continue Reading

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Can I really believe her sweet words?

Posted on May 27, 2013 by in Ask an Expert, Dating Advice

Sweet words are popular and frequently-used between lovers. However, can those be trusted and when to? We will begin answering the questions with Liam’s story. Question: Hi Rebecca, I have been writing to a lady during the past two months. She is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life, and things seem to be going well between us, but a part of me just … Continue Reading

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Is Betrothal Money a Must in China?

Posted on May 10, 2013 by in Ask an Expert, Dating Advice

It’s the tradition for the man to send the lady’parents betrothal money to show respects and ask permission to get engaged or married with their daughter in China. However, the amount is always a matter confusing him. What’s the proper amount? And is betrothal money the must? Let me explain with Jake’s story. Question: Hi Rebecca, I have met what seemed like a great lady on ChnLove. She is 39, … Continue Reading

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