Now that technology is everywhere, it’s pretty easy to find people of your interests via social channels. It provides an easy opportunity for meeting people coming from different backgrounds and culture. Online platforms for dating are now considered as the most popular way of finding people, having a conversation with, and dating them. You can find people from all over the world. People coming from a different country have their own traditions and culture. Although it might be a bit nerve-racking to date someone who completely differs on these grounds, but you never know, it might get you lucky and you end up being with that person for the rest of your life.
Here are THREE most important things that you should pay attention to when you have your first dating Chinese lady. Do try your luck.
Chinese women are afraid of being easy
One of the most common stereotypes of Chinese women is, they are considered ‘easy going’ for foreigners; Europeans, Americans and also Asians. So, these women try their best not to look “that” carefree and easy. So if you date one, make sure, you don’t treat her as if she’s a piece of cake.
Be careful about language barriers
Oh, we all know, Chinese are not fluent in English. This, I must say, is the biggest challenge when you (as a foreigner) approach a Chinese lady dating. One tip is to have written conversation with them via chat rooms, emails, messenger, whatsapp etc. That way you can get to know them better. Of course, listening & trying to interpret an English accent that you aren’t accustomed to, is kind of hard job especially if you are on your first date.
Culture & traditions matter a lot to them
China is famous for its traditions and customs. These girls are brought up in a conservative environment and have differing views when it comes to dating and marriage. They are hard working and most of them don’t consider money and material things to be essential for a decent living. They are particular about relationships and turn out to be quite loyal as well.
Understanding a Chinese mindset isn’t a difficult job. To a Chinese girl, a comfortable and happy home atmosphere matters a lot. They are quite particular about manners as well. So make sure, you watch a You-tube tutorial on how to hold chop sticks before you dine out or dine in with her. Good luck!