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Why do Chinese Women Make Better Wives than American Women?

Submitted by on July 30, 2012 – 1:30 am8 Comments

Chinese Women VS American Women

Recently we have received comments from one of our members about how differently his American ex-wife and Chinese girlfriend responded after he told them his team had lost a national competition. The response from the ex was “All that expensive training and practices were a waste of time and money then,” while his Chinese girlfriend said “Dear, though you have not won the match, but you in my heart is the best. I love you”.

So this gentleman came to the conclusion that Chinese women are totally supportive and loyal, while American women are judgmental and sarcastic.Of course, it is unfair to generalize about that because women are women no matter which part of the world they are in. There are the good and there are also the bad too. However, Chinese women do have certain good traits which are not commonly seen in American women, which make them more attractive to many American men.

1.Respect and Devotion

American women are often needy and demanding, and have rigid and unrealistic expectations in men. If an American woman is attractive, she has guys falling all over her. American men have come to practically worship at the feet of beautiful women. So these women are spoiled and think they deserve everything, just because they are attractive. A potential male mate must have the full package, i.e. good looks, money, power, etc. A lot of American women hold themselves as the pure center of the relationship, and know nothing about respect and devotion. If you ask them to make you a cup of coffee, most of them would tell you to make it yourself. With all due respect, many women in America have actually lost the art of being women and understanding men.
On the other hand, Chinese women are much more comfortable in their femininity. They do make better mates because they come from more conservative and family oriented cultures where relationships and commitment are actually revered. A Chinese woman will love her husband and treat him as the head of the household. To them, this is natural and a granted thing. They respect their partner, appreciate the affection he shows them, and acknowledge his efforts to provide a better life. Chinese women also take good care of the family and enjoy housework. They will serve their husband tea when he walks in the door, and massage his tired shoulders in the evening. That is why they are highly sought-after by American guys for their wifely skills.

2.View on Sex and Commitment

Another basic problem with most western countries now, is that there’s no courtship any more, and no time to really get to know each other, which means a lack of communication. People just jump into bed too quickly. In contrast, Chinese women are generally much more conservative about sex. They are unwilling to be intimate with a man before they are pretty sure that he is suitable as a long-term partner.

American women tend to want the bad boy (probably because of the image that the bad boy is always better in bed), while Chinese women want a man that can take responsibility and is willing to commit to a relationship. With American women, if you act like you couldn’t care less about marriage and are just out to get laid, most girls are pretty content to let you have your way. Ironically, if you try to be a gentleman, you may get dumped in a hurry. American women also like to use sex as a way to bargain, while Chinese women use sex as an expression of love.

Now you probably know why more and more Western men are looking for a Chinese wife on the other side of the world. If you are lucky enough to find one, treat her with love and respect and you will come to know happiness and a way of life you will never have with an American woman!




  • David says:

    This article has it right. Chinese women, in general, are far more supportive and respectful than American women who tend to be raised to be selfish.

  • Daryl says:

    Well I’m an Australian male. Sounds like the same thing here with the women. The Chinese woman that I am with is a fantastic wife and we are very happy. Many western women are simply no match for a normal femine Chinese woman who simply makes you glad to be at home.

  • Brian says:

    I think the writer got this right, and said it a lot nicer than I would. Attractive American women use their looks as a commodity. They have swallowed the feminist line hook, line and sinker. Most age very quickly, and badly indeed, and become invisible to men, as they lack the only commodity their kind of man wants. This type, the majority, is angry and bitter. Viciously anti-male.
    The small percentage that aged with grace, are still stuck in their fantasy world, with their career, yoga, ceramics classes, European vacations, etc. They want a pretty trinket of a man, (a very pretty empty shell will do just fine) and still see good men, as something less than they deserve.
    In other words, they never grow past their childish outlook.
    There are a lot of unkind myths about foreign brides, but you could almost beat an American spouse by choosing blindfolded.

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  • Dan says:

    I married a Chinese woman. I went to China to marry her after a brief relationship in email and online video. We are now waiting to see when she can come to America. I have been waiting for 7 months now and was married 9 months ago. I tried to find a wife online in America. I was not very popular. On the Chinese website chinalovelinks.com I was very popular. After one hit and miss on a relationship and several months of paying big bucks for an exclusive dating service and a thailandlovelinks.com try I found my wife on the same dating website. After many failed marriages I am happier than I have ever been. My wife speaks very little English and that is a challenge. I have only been with her for one week so I do hope it continues to go well. If you want a Chinese wife be prepared to spend money. My wife will not accept any money. But I had to go to China, pay for a lawyer, and the cost of getting her here will be a lot. I do not make much money but luckily I had some saved and knew it would take money to get her here. My wife is the most positive and generous woman I have known. She has promised to make any home a happy one regardless of the income. Being happy has always been a dream of mine. My wife takes care of me more than I am used to. More like a mother (wear your hat in the cold… she also bought it for me). I am so happy with her it makes me want to give her more. I have already decided to do what she wants. Almost I guess, because I don’t think she would approve of me writing this. I just like people to know why old guys like me who can not find any American women decide to marry a Chinese woman. I found American women wanted a rich good-looking husband who were old their selves and were only interested in what they could get out of a relationship. I study websites and yes they say there are scams. If money becomes something they get the happiest about, then maybe that is what they want. I ask my wife all the time if she needs money and she always says no. I am very happy being married to a Chinese wife!

  • Daryl says:

    Gee. if you people ever had a Chinese wife you would know that the words ‘I love you’ are impossible for them to say. And reading the rest of the above has not any factual merit. I understand why the Chinese men have had enough of them and their selfish nonsense.

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